Starting to meditate can be intimidating, but mindfulness meditation is really quite simple. You can learn all you need to know to begin practicing meditation from this five-minute video:
Meditation Tips: Emotions and Pain
Recently I posted about How to Meditate in 5 Easy Steps. In the last post we looked at what to do with a wandering mind when we meditate. The video below explains how we manage emotions and discomfort that arise during a meditation.
Following Your Breathing By Measuring Breaths
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In a previous post we practiced Following Our Breathing By Counting Breaths. Now we’re going to learn how to follow our breathing by measuring our breaths.
Measuring Your Breaths: Each time you take a breath, silently measure the length by counting to yourself:
In … two … three … (four)
Out … two … three … (four)
Out … two … three … (four)
Mindfulness and the Breath
Becoming mindful of our breath is one of the cornerstones of mindfulness, and a practice that benefits us in many ways. Learn more about Following Your Breath Mindfully, and before trying this practice, you may wish to ensure that you’re using Abdominal Breathing, where you’ll also find a link to my posts on following your breath mindfully.
Mindfulness of the Breath Meditation
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In previous posts we practiced Following Our Breathing By Counting Breaths and Following Your Breathing By Measuring Breaths. Now we’re going to learn a brief Mindfulness of the Breath Meditation.
You can do this meditation either sitting cross-legged on a cushion the floor, or on a firm chair with a straight back and preferably no armrests. You want to be in a comfortable but alert posture, with your back straight but not stiff, you shoulders relaxed, on your hands resting in your lap or on your knees.
When you’re ready, start the video below to play the guided mindfulness of the breath meditation.
Meditation Tips: Mind Wandering
Recently I posted about How to Meditate in 5 Easy Steps. In the last post we looked at what to do about distractions when we meditate. The video below explains how we deal with a wandering mind. In the next post we look at what to do when we experience emotions, pain and discomfort during a meditation.
Meditation Tips: Dealing With Distractions
Recently I posted about How to Meditate in 5 Easy Steps. In the next few posts we’ll look at some tips to help you meditate. The video below explains how we deal with distractions when we meditate. In the next post we look at what to do with a wandering mind during meditation.
Breathing In I Feel Calm, Breathing Out I Relax
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In previous posts we practiced Following Our Breathing By Counting Breaths and Following Your Breathing By Measuring Breaths and a Mindfulness of the Breath Meditation. Now we’re going to learn a great mindful breathing practice to help you calm yourself and relax.
Breathing In I Feel Calm, Breathing Out I Relax: Following your breath by silently repeating to yourself the phrase:
Breathing in I feel calm,
Breathing out I relax.
Breathing out I relax.
You can also shorten the phrases to:
In, Calm
Out, Relax
Out, Relax
What Is Acceptance And Why Is It So Important?
Acceptance can be a difficult notion to grasp. If you are suffering or in pain, the idea that you should practice acceptance can seem counterintuitive. So what do we mean by acceptance, and how is it beneficial?
In therapy, when we talk about acceptance, we are referring to acceptance of things such as:
- external events outside our control
- spontaneous emotions, thoughts and memories
- uncertainty
- pain or physical sensations